This pilot study says you shouldn’t accommodate your partner’s OCD behaviour. However, the sample size is 20 couples, the person with OCD were all women except 1. If you had asked me before the study was done I would say it is better to not accommodate anyone’s eccentricities. It just makes your life a living hell. That means I would have had zero tolerance for hysterical paralysis if I had been born in Freud’s time. It was fashionable then but has mostly fallen on hard times.